How To Become One Of Those Successful People Who Have It All
There are certain people who just seem to have everything—they are in fantastically loving relationships, they never have to worry about money, and they’re always planning some amazing new journey or experience that allows them to live a life of constant adventure.
You might look at these people and wonder what on earth they have that you don’t. Perhaps you’ve felt jealous and despondent, or maybe you’ve even resigned yourself to the idea that you’ll never have that type of life.
However, I implore you not to give up! I used to be in just that position, and now I wake up every morning feeling excited and delighted to be alive.
Understanding The Law of Attraction
The most basic idea at the heart of the Law of Attraction is that like attracts like. So, whether you’re aware of it or never even think about it, you’re actually responsible for all the influences you bring into your life—both positive and negative. If you’re feeling bad thinking that you attract negativity, it’s important to realize that much of this goes on at a subconscious level, and may be related to very early life experiences that have shaped your expectations.
The good news is that these expectations can be “rewired” and transformed so that you believe you’ll have positive experiences (then get these positive experiences in return!).
You’ll start transforming your life and moving towards phenomenal new accomplishments once you can really see that what you choose to focus on has a very clear and measurable impact on what happens to you. Ever noticed how people who constantly complain about every little thing and wallow in self-pity about the past just tend to attract more and more negativity?
Meanwhile, haven’t you noticed that happy, lively people always look for the best—even in challenging situations—and just seem to be on a constant road to success? The Law of Attraction teaches that we’re utterly free to choose the type of future we’ll have.
10 Things to Start Doing Right Now
1. Love yourself and take care of yourself. Take time to do what YOU like, take breaks and treat yourself to nice things every once in a while.
2. Be authentic, know who you are and stay confident.
3. Be more accepting of yourself and others. No one is perfect.
4. Be grateful for what you have. Think about this, you probably have something that others can only dream of, so be thankful for that.
5. Be more open to new things: seek new experiences, new opportunities, do not reject new ideas or people who are different. And DO NOT let limiting conditions passed to you from your friends or relatives keep you from living your best life. Read the new book Origins to discover how you can clean your slate of everything holding you back. You can finally embrace the extraordinary life you are meant for!
6. Find what you love to do and do it. Make a list of things you enjoy doing and make them into hobbies, and, potentially, make these hobbies into what you do for a living.
7. Be willing to work hard. Understand that sometimes it is necessary to work harder to get what you want and not give up half way through your journey to success.
8. Do not be afraid of failure.
9. Keep learning something new every day. Continue to grow and re-educate yourself. Take for example the Law of Attraction, you can always discover new techniques and tools to give it a boost. If this is something you want to do, take a look at our breakthrough program “Law of Attraction Origins: The Intention Point Secrets To Manifest An Extraordinary Life” – it’s a great place to start changing your life for the better.
10. And, finally, just stay positive. Don’t forget to have fun and enjoy life! 🙂
Making the Law of Attraction Work for You
Of course, it’s one thing to understand the core message of the Law of Attraction (like attracts like), and quite another to know how you can change your daily life to attract (or manifest, as it tends to be called) the things you want.
While I hope you’re feeling excited and optimistic after thinking about what the Law of Attraction can do for you, it’s understandable if you’re also wondering where on earth to start in terms of actually using it.
The great news is that there are hundreds of straightforward techniques that help you make the Law of Attraction work for you. When they’re explained in a step-by-step process (and backed by some of the latest science), learning how to use them becomes easy.
And, as a result, you end up feeling positive, expecting the things you want to come to pass, and constantly moving towards your goals. You can have love, financial abundance, a satisfying career and a life of adventure—you just have to want it and truly believe it is possible.
Some Basic Tools and Techniques
I strongly recommend you get the comprehensive ebook program Law of Attraction “Origins” – this is my breakthrough work, and it teaches you about something pivotal that’s missing from other educational resources — the Intention Point.
However, you might want to simply start with a few of the most basic tools and techniques associated with the Law of Attraction, then later learn more about how to make these techniques progressively more powerful.
Here, for free, are outlines of some of the major exercises that are commonly used to start harnessing some of the power of the Law of Attraction:
- Creative Visualization
This is the process by which you gradually build up a vivid image of the reality you want. As you would to take part in mindfulness meditation, find a relaxing and quiet place where you won’t be disturbed, and just focus on your breathing for 3-5 minutes (letting passing thoughts drift by without judgement).
Then, imagine yourself in the situation you aim for. So, if you want to be one of “those people” who seems to have it all, perhaps you’d see yourself with an amazing lover, on vacation, free to spend as you wish.
However, it’s important to distinguish a visualization from a daydream—to make the Law of Attraction work for you, it’s much more effective to imagine a short but incredibly intense snapshot of your ideal life than it is to construct a lengthy narrative.
Stay in this visualization for 5-10 minutes, then open your eyes and carry those positive feelings with you. Repeat this on a daily basis—possibly either before starting your day or just before going to bed at night.
Sometimes called mantras, affirmations are short, powerful phrases that connect you with what you want for your future. Crucially, proponents of the Law of Attraction generally believe these affirmation should be said in the present tense, so that you’re talking about the dream life that’s already yours—not some goal in the far off future.
So, you might say “I am vibrant, attractive and loved” if you’re looking for romance, or “Everyone sees how talented, creative and valuable I am” if you’re trying to ascend the career ladder at work. Many people find it most useful to say these affirmations directly into the mirror while making eye contact with their reflection.
- Dream Boards
Having a dream board allows you to constantly see a physical representation of the things you want to manifest. So, if you’re looking for love and prosperity, you’d use your dream board to display images that connect you with feelings of abundance and romance.
You can be as creative as you like here—some people like to draw their own images and write a few key phrases to pin on their dream board, while others primarily use pictures cut from magazines.
In addition, the images can be as literal or metaphorical as you like (e.g. romance can be represented by a happy couple, but it can also be represented by, say, a beautiful sun in the sky if that image evokes the feelings you associate with being loved).
You’ll know the right images when you see them, and you’ll find you instinctively know how to place them. Put your dream board someone where it will catch your eye multiple times a day, such as next to your work space, by your bed, on the fridge or near the front door.
So, as you can see, there are practical and concrete ways to start becoming one of those successful people who have it all!
However, I emphasize that the above is just the very basic information you’ll need to know—to harness its full power, you’ll need to build on these simple exercises and continue to deepen your understand of the psychology and science behind the Law of Attraction. Good luck on your amazing journey!