Can You Attract A Specific Person With The Law Of Attraction?
While many people start learning about the Law of Attraction with the hopes of finding a soulmate, others are hoping to find love in a particular place. Perhaps there’s someone you’ve always wanted to be with and yet have never approached, or maybe you remember a past partner and yearn to be reunited.
Regardless, you’re probably wondering whether it’s even possible to attract a specific person by using the Law of Attraction. The truth is that you can do it, just as you can manifest anything else you desire. Let’s take a closer look at how to attract a specific person, and consider some of the best techniques you can use.
How To Attract A Specific Person
Even when your hope is to manifest a specific person as a partner, working with the Law of Attraction will still involve primarily focusing on yourself. That can be hard to accept at first—after all, if there’s someone you’re deeply attracted to or are even in love with, it’s likely that this person is almost all you can think about some of the time!
You might have thought that you could use the Law of Attraction to get this other person to love you. However, using the Law of Attraction is all about your emotions, your thoughts, and your unique vibration.
Now, what are some concrete ways to focus on yourself in a way that facilitates the Law of Attraction bringing a specific person to your door?
Here are seven approaches worth trying.
1. Be Confident About Yourself
Self-confidence is powerfully alluring, and the person you desire is more likely to see you in a positive light if you can perceive your own value more clearly. Try to connect with all the reasons that you have a lot to offer in a relationship—for example, make a list, draw out a mind map, or keep a journal in which you write one positive thing about yourself per day.
2. Build Positive Beliefs About Love
If you spend all your time thinking you can’t or won’t get a partner, you’re unlikely to attract the one you love. In addition, try to avoid self-pitying thoughts like “Why don’t people appreciate me?”—the truth is that plenty of others do and will appreciate you, but you need to be open to seeing this.
When you let in the love and admiration, you create a space to experience the love of the person you want to be with.
3. Let Go Of Fear
One of the most frightening parts of love is allow yourself to experience it. After all, it comes with the possibility of being hurt in the long term. When this fear is at the forefront of your mind, you can unconsciously erect barriers and defences that keep other people away. Work to make peace with the risks involved in love, and you’ll be fully open to receiving the right partner.
4. Have A Good Time
Studies consistently show that laughing, smiling and being downright fun are all incredibly attractive. You’re noticeable and appealing to other people when you’re enjoying yourself, so try to really throw yourself into all your hobbies, interests and passions.
Make it your mission to enjoy every day of your life, and you’ll be more likely to attract your chosen person at a faster rate.
5. See The Other Person Positively
If you’re looking to attract someone with whom you have a complicated history, your feelings might be somewhat confused. However, if you spend a lot of time thinking about the person’s negative traits (or traits you worry they might have), you’ll keep them at a distance.
Try to zero in on the best things about the person, and to keep focusing on them. You may be surprised by how quickly this change in attitude can spark changes in the other person’s behaviour.
6. Enjoy What You Have
A huge part of successfully using the Law of Attraction involves learning how to better live in the moment, really savouring every day and every good experience. This is what will give you that all-important higher vibration—the vibration that attracts more good things into your life, including the partner you desire.
Try to let go of obsessing over what you don’t have, and you’ll soon see things start to fall into place.
7. Prepare To Let Go
As with any goal, you’ll need to find a way to let go of being with the other person if you’re ever going to manifest the relationship you want. It’s only when you’re able to accept being happy and at peace without this other person that you will be able to attract them.
This is challenging, but with time and effort you can begin to see how life could be okay (and even good) without this person as your partner. Then—and only then—will you be ready to receive their love.